In many ways, a man is defined by the manner in which he carries himself. To a lesser degree, a man is also defined by what he wears or carries. This is not inherently good or bad; it's just the way it is, and you can either be limited by it, or you can use it to your advantage. Step one, carry yourself well. Step two, carry something that reflects your true character. (Our men's leather bags are a great place to start.) Step three, don't flaunt it. Nothing trumps quiet confidence.